How can we save for our son's future?

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This week’s question comes from Dan and Heather Sostrom of Gainesville, Florida.

Clark:
Wow you’ve got a lot of mouths to feed in that household, now another one on the way. Three children that you’re going to have to raise and pay for college for.

But the thing is, do you know what? You paid for your own college you said that set you back. But the truth is there are so many ways to pay for college, but you know what? There’s only one way to pay for your own retirement.

So you love your children, you want the best for the them but key thing, your primary focus and goal should be to beef up your savings for retirement. You need to contribute more each and every month to that and then if there’s money left over, put it toward your kids’ college in a prepaid plan or the 529 plan.

This conflict I’ve just talked about, I hear this over and over and over again. And when I talk with older couples whose kids are now grown and then I ask 'What did you save for retirement?' They kind of can’t look at me because they’ve taken all the money and put it toward their kids’ college.

Remember what I just said. Your primary goal with your long term savings is not your kids’ college. There’s work, there’s loans, there’s grants, there’s scholarships but for retirement you’ve got one thing and that’s you.